Show up for your partner.

Tend turns awareness into action. AI-personalized nudges, grounded in your shared calendar, help you be more present in your relationship.

Available on iPhone — coming soon to the App Store.

What it does

• Reads your calendar locally to understand your partner's day — stress, free evenings, travel, recurring patterns.
• Generates a small daily set of suggested actions (morning text, a question to ask at dinner, an offer to handle one task).
• Notifies you near the moment each nudge is most useful — not all at 7am.
• Learns from what you actually do. Skip a category often? It sends fewer of those.

Privacy

Calendar event titles, locations, and your home address never leave your device by default. You can opt in to share titles with the AI for richer suggestions; you can opt out at any time. Full details on the privacy page.

Pricing

Tend is free to use offline with a 200-nudge library. The AI tier and partner-linking ("Couples") features are available via subscription.